Master Your Focus

Master Your Focus


Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.
Carl Gustav Jung

Post written by Katarina Miletic  Join my Inner Circle

On a day that marks the new beginning so significantly, as the start of a New Year - starting as you intend to go on is remarkably important. Open your heart like you have never opened it before – to yourself. And note, everything you hear from me comes from the deepest place inside my soul and it will always and only ask you to look inside your own soul for guidance on the right direction and steps that will reveal your path to you. If you wish to remain on the path that leads to the powerful conviction that the last year was the best year of your life, and that the next one will also be the best ever (and the one after it even more so, and so on indefinitely), then listen closely.


I speak with the voice that is unique to my soul, but the language of the soul of the universe is understood by your own soul, even if you have never been aware of it before. The soul of the universe is clear, and the more you are able to hear it – the better you will feel in your life, the more meaning you will create, and more joy. Even more than that, you will always be ready and eager to step forward, you will always bring the best in you to the table, to each day, to every person you encounter. And, you will be brave and live with an open heart.

Wake Up the Creator Inside You

Just because you may not be aware of it, the universe works in precise order and things that happen in your life are not random at all – they are the results of your creation. Stay with me for a moment here, please. Yes, I am suggesting that the most powerful position we can assume is to accept responsibility for everything that happens in our life. I also believe that our own thoughts and beliefs create the reality we live in, but even if you argue that this is not the case – accepting the full responsibility for the way you feel, and the way you choose the things to impact you - is still the biggest weapon you can have in living the happy and fulfilled existence.

Control over your own thoughts is pivotal. You have to become aware that many different things outside your being influence the thoughts you are thinking. They are not always your own thoughts, beliefs, convictions. Unless you learn to control your thoughts, they will control you and ultimately control your life. Your life will feel like a random collection of events in which you are a powerless figure at life’s mercy. Again, by adopting the perception that you are responsible for the outcomes in your own reality – your position immediately changes from a victim and an observer to a creator – and that is the vital change.

Accepting That Your Happiness is an Inside Job

Now, as a creator, understanding that it is your focus (i.e. your thoughts) that creates your reality – you will instantly see why this is the first subject of the 1st January, as indeed it should be the first subject of every new day for the rest of our lives. Can you focus on the unwanted and expect the desired and wanted to appear in your life experience? No, you cannot.

This New Year, and this new day, whenever it is that you are reading this, my friend – bring awareness to your thoughts, as they will show you where your focus is. Also, the reality you live, as you feel it: you have to be honest with yourself here and state how satisfied do you feel with living your full potential and your possibilities. Where are you on that scale of fulfillment? And remember, it’s totally OK to be where you are. You can start there, and become more deliberate with each and every day. Do not assign the power that is yours to anything or anyone else. Your life’s work, your life’s happiness, your own fulfillment – it is all in your hands. Even if you give this power to anything outside of you, they will still have no way of creating your destiny (happy or otherwise), as only you can do that by what you are focusing on!


Cavendish Place, Bath by Katarina Miletic 

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