Unconditional Makes All the Difference
I tore myself away from the safe comfort of certainties through my love for truth - and truth rewarded me.
Simone de Beauvoir
Simone de Beauvoir
Here is something that elevates everything to a whole new level. And that new level is so powerfully positive, that once you reach there, you will not look back. In fact, you will be able to look in every direction with a completely different outlook – even at the past. Starting with mastering your thoughts by choosing them (rather than letting your mind have total control over your life) – you can also bring awareness to the unconditional into your present moment. The value of this is by far the biggest gift you can give yourself.
Start Here: Happy or Unhappy
I could, and perhaps will, write a book on the subject of this single post, but I intend to bring you the information and insight right now, so that you don’t have to wait another day to be happy. Whatever you are facing, my friend – your soul is embracing you from within, and will not guide you to suffering if you allow it to lead you.
It’s as simple as this – you can choose the thoughts you think and say – and observe what your instincts are telling you when you say them. Do you feel better when you state that you’re unhappy? Well, you do when you say you are happy. The smile comes naturally, and the feeling follows. You got a lot to be happy about today – if you woke up alive that’s a lot to be grateful for, because many didn’t. And as long as you are here, you have the hope to see another day after this one. Unless you keep convincing yourself otherwise, your natural positive energy will shine through. But, think about this as well – what are you influencing and expecting to hear from others when you start to beat the drum of ‘poor me’? And whether they play along with ‘poor, poor you’ or say ‘you think that’s bad – I am facing ……’ – bottom line is that two people focusing negatively on any life situation is not going to produce a happy outcome for anyone.
Do This Instead
Start being aware of your thoughts, and especially be mindful around other people. We are not here on this life journey to be a burden to each other, but to uplift and love. Our connections are inspired and joyous by nature. Our old souls have come here to learn something together, to co-create, and become better in the process.
Open your mind to happiness, but beware of attaching it to conditions. Yes, it is better to observe the sunrise and hear the birdsong and feel on top of the world, but keep close to your heart the knowledge that blessing of the sunrise and the birdsong lives inside you already – you only recognise them for their beauty – but you don’t need to attach your feeling good to witnessing them in front of you. Because there will be days with fog and rain, frost and hurricanes – and you might miss the blessing of love from within if you look only for the beautiful things to observe. Find them inside you. Never look for the source of your happiness outside you. All you need to be happy is already in your heart, my dear friend.
Fill The World With Your Happiness
Kind words, and love, and grace, and goodness, and success - are all abundant and free, and already fill your soul. Let them spill into the world, open the floodgates and never give it another thought. There is no way that they can run out inside your heart. Quite the opposite is true – the more you give, the bigger your heart will grow and you will be rewarded with more love and more compassion, and more grace, and more understanding, and deeper knowledge, and deep, deep, deepest satisfaction there is. You create it for you, you see. The creator has already given you all the love there is. Don’t cut yourself off from feeling it and being part of it – because you are by your nature one part of the soul of the universe, with all its best qualities inside you. Let them shine through you. It’s OK to be happy, that’s the only thing that you can do that can really, truly change the world for the better.
Even with all of the above said, we have only scratched the surface of the significance that unconditional plays in our happiness. It’s the key with which you can unlock everything that you have put to safeguard you, and in fact you have locked yourself in a voluntary prison of unhappiness. Now you have it in your hand. Set yourself free to feel unconditionally happy once again, my friend.
Remember – You Are Safe Here
This is the sacred place between our souls. Thank you for sharing your visions, dreams and ideas. Your courage to be vulnerably seen will always be respected, and you will be treated with nothing but kindness and compassion. ♡
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