How To Wish and
Have Dreams Come True
Did you push yourself to be great today, did you do it? If you didn't do it, you lost today. We don't have many days to lose.
Urban Meyer
Post written by Katarina Miletic - Join I&V Written
If you want to go deep, you have to find yourself first, you have to know yourself. Beyond the meanings of physical and intellectual - there is a world of aliveness or being-ness. And that is the only real one. When I say real, I mean that is your sphere of influence, control, and perfection. With only one reason - to guide you back to innocence and pure light, awareness, ease, bliss.
Without self, you have no place of attachment to the world that is real only in our projection of it. There is no world out there. It’s all within.
So, have a guess when you come from a wonky place of looking at it how far that can and will take you?
How is it working for you? How are you, really, my friend?
Looking in the Right Places
Do you allow that which permeates your existence to be the driving force of your life? If you do - you know exactly what balance, love and happiness mean. The breathtaking exhilaration of pure being. And while there is nothing wrong with searching, it’s not going to help you one bit to find the sea in Switzerland. There is a skill, an instinct guiding you through every part of life. You find what you seek, so observe, be present, bring your awareness to this moment. You are capable of tuning into your inner guidance, and unless you do - you will keep missing the magic.
Forget the Word Coincidence
Altogether and forever banish that thought! You are ignoring the magic of your creator, the essence of life itself when you think that randomness has any place in the design of existence, including your unique existence.
Make Friends With Your Freedom
You were born absolutely free to choose everything you experience. Including the things that keep you away from the very thing you want. Empower yourself by quitting the whining and complaining. If you choose to identify with victimhood, there is no hope that will light your soul. The help you are looking for outside you has to save you from within. You have to choose not to be a victim, irrelevant of the circumstance.
Be Your Own Leader, Teacher and Student
Turn to humbleness. You have this natural humility and grace - relax and trust it more. That alone will let you marry courage with transparency, strength with softness - qualities that will take you to any destination you want to go. Just keep remembering this, because it’s true: There are no shortcuts to any place worth going. But when you give your best in every moment - that will always be enough….
Genuine Connection
If you want successful relationships with others, allow for individuality, personal resonance and freedom to be at the core of your connection. When you respect the fact that you cannot tie anyone to yourself, apart from being the unconditional, unreserved love - then only love will tie you with them. And every other detail will be satisfactory.
Enjoy the gift of connection for what it is: a glimpse of perfection, an eternity in each moment. Don’t attempt to tie people to yourself, that’s not what real love does. Observe and learn from Love itself.
Turn all your energy and focus on understanding the power inside you, the everlasting presence of universal Love which knows no separation and loves you the same way even when you doubt its existence, throw everything bad at it, and hate or resent it, or even when you are ignorant of it. You are full of the light of that pure Love. Just imagine the quality of your relationships when you let love shine through you that way.
Yes, you can.
No, it’s not easy when you allow yourself to be bombarded with irrelevant, shallow crap from every direction. Its influence is always bigger than you care to admit, so stop exposing your pure heart to it.
If you think you need a partner to complete you, instead of compliment each other’s existence, freedom and resonance; including the pure love for every other being - then you have failed every relationship before it even started. Even if they bend backwards, they will not be enough for you. There is no way to get to real love from there. You need to bring your all to another and ask for nothing in return. Two way, of course. Now - that is your ideal partner. But you cannot find them before you are them.
I had no wish to be understood - instead, I really wanted to understand.
It was never my wish to be liked - I wished to love everyone.
I wished for no one’s approval of me - I wanted to respect those who did it their way.
I didn’t wish others to be like me - my wish was to embrace the differences.
I never wished to judge the judgment - I wished to know where condemnation comes from.
I had no desire to ever defend myself - I dreamed of disarming every attack with pure love.
I cared not for others to see the real me - I wished to be able to see inside them who they really were.
I never wished for darkness to go away - instead, in the darkest moments, I wished to keep shining my light brightly for everyone else.
I didn’t wish for others to give me the answers - I truly desired to come to answers by myself.
Keep remembering this: When you really wish something - it comes true. Dreams do come true.
Keep sharing your positive energy, you never know when someone needs it the most.
You don’t need the reason to spread optimism and love. They are always welcome, I find.
* * * The Exclusive Update – 210 Days to Dream * * * *
Read the original post 365 Days to Dream Challenge right here*
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It has been really busy and creative summer in the headquarters of Indigo & Verdigris. Weekly lives are happening in the Art & Soul Society - FB group for creative friends who want to want to make their art and/or craft into a successful business. We are sharing the knowledge and experience, supporting each other and growing together through the connection of friendship and love. If this resonates with you, please come and join us right now. Click here!
365 Days to Dream home renovation project is also in full swing. Supported by I&V Vintage - Weekly YT Live launch of the current week’s collection is happening every Sunday at 8 PM BST (London, England time). The collection is live for only one week, at which point everything that is not sold is retired never to be seen again. Net yourself a terrific collectible piece in this one-off vintage sale event. You can use it as a decorative piece for your home, photo prop, or even sell it on. There is a lot happening behind the scenes to keep things moving on curating these collections and presenting them to you Live on QuodRarumCarum YT channel and on the website (click here to join the email list).
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My goodness, the feeling of fulfilment, joy and this vibrant creative energy is occupying every part of my being. I am so grateful to be here, so thankful for this opportunity to share with you every step of the journey, so blessed to connect with so many of you, to directly inspire and share, and to welcome and introduce even more guests, all creative souls and exceptional beings. Truly, thank you for being a big part of that!
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As ever, there is so much to share in this section. I just want to tell my most loyal readers and friends that I am working extra hard to figure out a way to safely transfer this blog onto a more stable platform, one where I will be in control of the formatting and presentation style. When I started this blog, I wished for the design of it to be minimal and simple, so that nothing ever distracts us from what is the most important: our connection and the words holding us together, as we move on and grow into better versions of self. This platform is constantly changing and overcomplicating that intention. That is the reason behind fewer posts at the moment, but hopefully, in a few weeks, we will be able to connect in our usual, steady way.
I am grateful for you and your patience and support and all the kind words that mean so much to me.
Also, I would like to invite you to check out two things I created this week for you:
This is Your Moment - podcast
Interview with the delightful Sara Carreau of Soul Sunshine Goods. In a word: unmissable, for the positive vibe and message. It’s 18 minutes of pure bliss. (You’re welcome!) Listen to it here.
Introducing I&V Written
See the image for information and the link is right here! Enjoy!
This is the sacred place between our souls. Thank you for sharing your visions, dreams and ideas. Your courage to be vulnerably seen will always be respected, and you will be treated with nothing but kindness and compassion. ♡
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