The Advice . . . .

The Advice . . . . 


One can have no smaller or greater mastery than mastery of oneself.
Leonardo da Vinci

Post written by Katarina Miletic  Join my Inner Circle

I mean ‘the’ advice that I would give myself at any point in my life, but especially daily now, is the only advice I will ever offer anyone else, and that is that in time when you need guidance the most – the one that comes from outside of you will never be as powerful and clearly resonant as the guidance you receive from within.


The Reality

I have lived through some extraordinary life experiences that have shaped my soul, made it more visible to me, and I have witnessed the mysterious ways in which universe delivers its magic to us. For the clarity of this message, please understand that I am not just talking about those days where my soul was uplifted with the beauty of the moment, but also about the days where my soul was submerged in the pain of sudden and untimely loss (both personal to me, and by supporting others who were going through something extremely difficult, and I was feeling their pain), the seemingly endless days of challenge and stress in each day when you wonder just how strong do you have to become in this life to endure, and the days when the soul was all but crushed completely. What transpired was nothing short of a miracle: that pain was always followed by the confirmation of deepest beliefs and an absolutely amazing expansion of soul.

The lesson being, in every one of those challenging experiences, that the light inside is what guides you home and makes sure that you and the world are okay. I’m going to keep it real, as always, my friend. Some of those lessons lasted a while, for I wasn’t always going for comfort to my inner being, but to an outside source. The voice that guides your life has to come from within, I am sure of that now.

What makes me so positive? The very fact that going through the most challenging personal time in the last two years has seen me at every step say, and mean it, and really feel it in every way– This is the best time of my life! And I say this every single day, because, my life is in my own hands! I am responsible for every single outcome, I am responsible for seeing and learning the lesson and I am responsible for bringing my best out to face it.

The deeper I go in self exploration, self healing, self education – and I mean every waking (and sometimes even when I sleep) moment is dedicated to delivering the best inside me to the world. To me, to my children and parents, to my brother and best friends, to you, and to all – the same way – all of it! I am not only perfecting myself, I am taking everyone else on a journey with me. Every single day will see us as more than we were yesterday.

An After Word

The challenges are real, but they are what makes the journey worthwhile and interesting, they are what pushes us forward. Looking back, I wouldn’t give up any of those lessons, I wouldn’t wish for it to have been different. That’s the part of deciding long time ago to live a life of no regrets! (This is the lesson I observed other people go through in life, and I never had a personal encounter with it, as a conscious choice I made.) Give your all, show your love – and worry not how it will be perceived, for that sometimes does not depend on you. Yours is to give what you have, bravely. What other people make of it - that is absolutely not your concern ever.

The challenges are going to keep coming, because your soul wants to grow more. They are likely to get bigger, but you are equipped with so much and you know that you are ready when they do, and you embrace them as your opportunity to grow and bring out even better you. You are greater than the challenge, every time. Just hold on to the power connection between you and your inner being. Your very soul has all the answers to all of your questions.

Make sure you nurture and tend to that connection, because that is what makes you mighty. That is what makes you invincible. That’s what makes you unstoppable. That’s what makes you irresistible. That’s your strength. That is who you are.


Hughenden Manor by Katarina Miletic 


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